Morning sickness. Urgh. It has been the worst pregnancy symptom so far. Heh. And I thought the breast tenderness was bad. No way man. (Turns out the simple solution to that problem was to wear a bra around the clock. A good one. Oh and gentle hugs, people. Gentle.) This morning sickness (so badly named by the way, cause it is not just in the morning) is really getting in the way of just about everything.
Ok, I have to admit, some days are good. But some days are NOT. And those days are the ones that stick out more vividly in my mind: clinging to the toilet bowl, wrenching my guts out, resting (if I am lucky) long enough to catch my breath, and my most loving husband waiting behind me with a cool washcloth and a glass of water. Yeah. Those are the memories etched in my mind.
Saturday was a good day. Sim and I got up early to head to Seaside to meet my mom, his dad and his brother for breakfast before picking up my little sister, Darcie, for our family reunion later that day. The weather was lovely. The sun was shining but there was a nice cool breeze. I told the rest of my family the big news and was met with great excitement and enthusiastic congratulations. I didn’t even feel pregnant. I was happy. I was smiling. I was feeling gooooood.
Then there was Sunday.
Sunday started out harmless enough. We got to sleep in. We went out for breakfast. We came back and cuddled on the couch and caught up on some TiVoed shows. Heather and I went to a scrapbooking club. Then just as Heather was pulling out of my driveway, I barely managed to make it up the stairs to the bathroom before I emptied the contents of my stomach down the toilet. And continued to heave until I almost passed out from sheer exhausting. (My stomach muscles ACHE today like none other.) My eyes hurt so bad it felt like I was vomiting out of every orifice in my head. I weakly washed my face, slipped into my comfy pajamas, and crawled back into bed. And stayed there for the rest of the day. Did I mention this was only about 4pm?
Simeon is a trooper through all of this. He takes care of me like his life depends on it (which sometimes it does). He lets me sleep. He quietly refills the Gatorade on my nightstand, complete with a bendy straw so I don’t even have to lift my head off the pillow. He can order take-out like nobody’s business. And he doesn’t even feel too badly when I refuse to let him kiss me if he has had beer, garlic, onions, or whatever happens to make me gag that day. In fact this morning even watching him brush his teeth made me dry heave a little. Poor guy. I guess it just goes to show that pregnancy is truly a tremendous undertaking, but if you chose the right guy, it’s not too bad.
Two words:
Preggo Pops
I had a friend with all day sickness as you have (who is a 4th grade teacher) and she swears by them. It’s worth a try at least! I’ve seen them at Babies R Us and the Motherhood clothing store.
In 7.5 short months when you are holding your little sweetie none of this will matter. You will forget. YOU ARE GOING TO HAVE A BABY! I am just so excited for you!
I’m off to the baby doctor to have my cervix checked – hopefully we’ll have a Memorial Day baby!
i, like carole, cannot offer you any advice but anything you need i am here. i have also heard that preggie pops are great, or lemonheads (if those do not turn your tummy). hopefully once you coast out of your first trimester the morning sickness will get better. i have been told that it eases up once you get into your second 🙂
ps-i knew your sore boob blog meant you were preggers…i just knew it, and only 4 days before you peed on a stick!
Wish I could offer some words of advice, but I had zero pregnancy symptoms, except for the weight gain of course. Good luck – I hear that the sick feeling tends to taper off around 12 weeks or so.
I am sooo sorry that you get so sick. But as god made you the one to carry this baby, I have to support you where I can. I can’t say that if given the chance I would switch ( not likely!) but I do wish you didnt have to hurt so much.
Thanks for having my baby though! I likey that about you 🙂
Hi darling! I of course cannot offer any advice from my own life, as my womb is currently empty, but I have a friend who swore by "preggie pops" during her pregnancy. You can find them online at http://www.threelollies.com. I think I have seen them around town as well, though I can’ t place where. Hope that helps!
Sorry your having a rough time with the ‘morning’ sickness. Something that worked for me: if I felt like I needed to throw up, I did. I did NOT try to quell the urge. I would always feel better afterwards.
This too shall pass.
Yea for Sim!!!